Michelle's Fairy Tale Ferry Ride
I live in the great Northwest, and many of the women I work with live here too.One of the magical things about our region are the many islands that cluster off-shore, and the ferries that glide back and forth between them all day long.
But we're getting ahead of ourselves. Who's Michelle? And how did she find love on a ferry?When she came to me for help, Michelle was fed up.Fed up with the type of men she kept attracting.Guys who were consistent in one thing only...their desire to “sponge” off her kindness and stable salary.The kind of guys women are quick to call losers.
She was attractive, smart and had a bright, playful smile. Even though she was a highly desirable partner, she kept attracting the wrong kind of guys.Repeatedly.While it was driving her crazy, it didn’t surprise me one bit.
It boggles the mind: how can there be so many variations of "wrong," or if not 100% wrong, still definitely not right?But that’s the experience of dating for many women. Including Michelle.
And the way she thought of herself at times could have predicted a few of these “wrong” dates.But the bigger problem was that she was stuck.No matter what she tried she couldn’t seem to connect with the right kind of guy and the relationship she desired.Something had to change.
Michelle and I worked together over several months — going through the same program I offer in my online course Discover Your Sure-Fire Recipes for Dating (and Relationship) Success.
Michelle came to understand and act on the things that truly delighted her in partnership. She grew to feel she deserved to have those things.And I loved watching her growing enthusiasm and blossoming expectations.(And of course, how things ended!)
In the moment of meeting that friendly stranger, Michelle knew he was special...Because by then her radar was not only sharply tuned to what she wanted and needed in partnership — she had solid practice going after it.
Despite what Hollywood movies and romance novels might have you believe, finding a great match isn't just luck, a strike of Cupid's arrow.
And you don't have to be a glamorous Michelle to make it work. I'll be sharing Lisa's story next, the story of a someone who never thought she'd find love because she was, well, not your run-of-the-mill kind of girl.
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