This survey is designed to get you thinking about what you reveal when you date, and why.

If you want to see how your answers compare to others taking the survey, and hear my selective commentary on some of the questions, enter your email and hit submit at the end and I'll get back to you with the groups' results. (Make sure to print the page before submitting if you think you'll have trouble remembering your answers).

 

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*indicate how much you agree with the following statements:

First dates are all about figuring out if both people want a second date. *
First dates are all about figuring out if both people want a second date.
It's more important that I figure out if I want a second date then it is for the other person to figure it out. *
It's more important that I figure out if I want a second date then it is for the other person to figure it out.
While it can feel like an interview, it's better to know if you each person has what the other wants as quickly as possible. *
While it can feel like an interview, it's better to know if you each person has what the other wants as quickly as possible.
My first dates are too business-like. *
My first dates are too business-like.
I tend not to share quirks or less appealing things about myself on the first date, thinks like: the tendency to be late, being a modest tipper, liking alcohol more than I "should." *
I tend not to share quirks or less appealing things about myself on the first date, thinks like: the tendency to be late, being a modest tipper, liking alcohol more than I "should."
I wish I knew the other person's quirks or challenge areas right off. *
I wish I knew the other person's quirks or challenge areas right off.
As I discover who the other person is, I struggle with revealing things about myself that don't "fit" what they want. *
As I discover who the other person is, I struggle with revealing things about myself that don't "fit" what they want.
I wish I had known others' incompatibilities sooner. *
I wish I had known others' incompatibilities sooner.
Honesty in a relationship has to be earned over time. *
Honesty in a relationship has to be earned over time.